Sometimes the stupid people on the internet make my head hurt too. It's like by being anonymous/hidden behind an avatar allows them to say the all the rude, obnoxious and sometimes frankly prejudiced things, that embarrassment and fear of retribution would stop them from saying to your face. (Sadly) I can't stop free speech over the internet, but your LJ is your little piece of it and should only be dictated by you. We are merely minions :)